Oct 02

Happy International Nonviolence Day

Today is the Birthday of Gandhi and International Nonviolence Day.  There are many exciting nonviolent efforts around the world that you could join and/or support.

In New York, Nonviolence International and Nonviolent Peaceforce are trying to promote nonviolent/unarmed peacekeeping in the United Nations. https://www.facebook.com/nonviolenceny?fref=ts and www.nonviolentpeaceforce.org


In Palestine, NI has helped found the first master’s degree program on Peace, Conflict and Nonviolence at the Bethlehem Bible College. Dr. Awad taught the first course in September. Displaying

Campaign Nonviolence in the USA led by Pace e Bene held hundreds of actions in September  calling for an end to militarism, support for immigrant, and an end to structural poverty. http://www.paceebene.org/programs/campaign-nonviolence/


In Thailand, today, citizens are protesting the government centralization and control of over the Internet. http://www.cnbc.com/2015/10/01/gateway-proposal-assault-on-thai-government-websites-symbolic-minister-says.html


The United States Institute for Peace has launched a free course on nonviolent civic mobilization. Help spread the power and strategy of nonviolent action by enrolling in Civil Resistance and the Dynamics of Nonviolent Movements – a free (for a limited time), self-paced, online training created by the United States Institute of Peace Global Campus – https://www.usipglobalcampus.org/training-overview/civilresistance/

Please donate your time and money to one of the groups above.

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Aug 03

Join Us In Our Pledge as Iranians and U.S. Citizens to Resolve Conflicts With Nonviolence and Diplomacy!

11800615_1101416966552793_5858331343670449576_nIn the light of decades of hostility between the governments of Iran and the United States, we invite you to join us as either Iranian or American citizens to sign statements seeking to build peaceful relations between our peoples.  Join this effort at citizen diplomacy to build trust and mutual respect.

Sign out statement to rebuild relations here.

Like and participate in our Facebook page here. 


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Jul 31

NI Intern Tries NVC for the First Time

733923_10151946739422940_1771763695_nYesterday, I participated in Nonviolent Communication, or ‘NVC,’ for the first time.  Nonviolent communication. Sounds simple, doesn’t it? Just communicate openly without aggression is what it sounds like, but it is so much more than that. My supervisor introduced me to the idea of NVC and urged me attend a local practice group. Although I was apprehensive, I went.  I arrived at the address, a modest house just outside of D.C., and was greeted by a group of mostly middle-aged women. I was clearly the youngest, and wondered what it would be like to learn something with a group of people who have been doing this for years.

We began with a self-appreciation exercise.  We focused on appreciating small actions we had accomplished, qualities of ourselves, or even physical traits we enjoyed about ourselves.  With our eyes closed we listened to the soothing voice of the facilitator, as the questions required us to inquire further and further into ourselves.  At the end of the exercise, a question was asked that resulted with a surprising answer.  “Was it difficult to fully appreciate yourself?” asked the facilitator of the group.  Against my own will, I was finding myself saying yes and realized that I was having difficulty fully appreciating my actions and environment without self-judgment.  For the first time, I was fully aware of the pessimistic way I was framing situations, and I was not happy with it.  Just this small introductory exercise already began to illustrate to me the power that NVC could have.

We then moved on to putting into practice the methods of nonviolent communication and replacing our habitual ways of communication.  We focused on strict observations of what we see and hear (instead of interpretation of what we see and hear), feelings brought up by these observations (instead of thoughts and beliefs that interpretations trigger), realizing the human needs that were met or unmet that triggered those feelings (instead of using strategy to meet needs), and finally a concrete request (rather than a demand driven by the fear of punishment or consequences).  These four steps sound so simple, but they are truly profound and were a challenge to meet.

We took a few moments of silence to reflect on something that we had seen or heard recently and wrote a few key words for each step.  I chose to write about a situation that recently occurred with my father.  To write about the situation without my own interpretations, as if I was only watching it as a video recording, was the biggest challenge for me.  Before I came to Washington, D.C., my father wrapped me in his arms and hugged me.  He told me how proud he was of the decision I had made to go to a new city on my own for a meaningful internship.  In his eyes, I saw tears swelling, just the type of look people get before they cry.  But I couldn’t write about what types of almost-tears they were; that would be interpretation.  So I continued.  His embrace lasted a long time.  I wanted to write that it was longer than a usual hug, but I couldn’t.  That would be subjective and an interpretation, something we were distancing ourselves from.  What I heard: my father expressing his satisfaction and delight that I had been given this opportunity.  Next were the feelings I had from hearing and feeling him.  Empowered, optimistic, touched, thankful; all words that came to my head.  “Ok,” I said to myself, “This isn’t too hard. I can do this.” The needs that were met from this encounter: the need for support, encouragement, and purpose.  I felt as though I had a purpose in what I was doing.  I wasn’t leaving him for no reason.

Next we broke into groups.  I was paired with the facilitator, a woman with years of experience with NVC.  The exercise was to speak about our observation, feelings, and needs to our partner as if they were the subjects of our observation.  She was my father.  I told my father how feeling his embrace and hearing his meaningful words made me feel and what needs they had met for me.  Again, it sounds so simple but can be so challenging.  This was just a small encounter that occurred, not something I ever reflected on further and I as I continued to speak, I realized how much this small action meant to me.  Her role as my father was to repeat back what he understood from the situation. She repeated back to me “Sara, my daughter…” and told me from the perspective of my father how he heard the situation, the feelings I had, and the needs he had met for me.  I had expected such a prescribed response to be automated and stiff, but I couldn’t have been more wrong.  It was sincere and genuine.  None of the same adjectives I used were repeated back to me.  ‘My father’ really listened to me. He explained how he understood that I was moved by the words he said and that I was encouraged and delighted to have approval.  He met my needs for partnership and inspiration.  Then, as my father, the facilitator responded with the feelings he had from hearing that, and the needs that had been met by hearing everything I had said.  He felt proud, moved, and appreciative of hearing my feelings.  I provided him with trust, intimacy, and affection.  Hearing her say that as my father, I started to tear up.

She asked me as we finished the roles if I had told this all to my father.  I hadn’t, and maybe that is why I was crying.  The sudden realization that this interaction meant so much to me and I had never shared that with him was not an easy feeling to come to terms with, but it was rewarding and enlightening.  Right then I decided that I needed to tell him because this step-by-step exercise showed me how to appreciate life, no matter how small the occurrence.  What my partner did not know was that my father had been fighting cancer for the six months previous to this interaction, yet she patiently listened to every word I had to say and understood the importance of such a small interaction without needing to know my entire background.  It was so amazing to be provided with such a sense of support and community without needing to tell my entire story.  In what has seemed like the worst six months that my family will ever experience and watching my father fight so hard, I learned that there is so much to appreciate and that by communicating and observing situations this way, we can shed a new light on every experience we have.

When the roles were reversed, I played my partner’s daughter. Telling her the positive feelings her observance and feelings gave me, I could see in her eyes that it was an encouraging message for her to hear, just as hers was to me.  Being so engaged with a stranger, and opening up to them as if they were someone close is so fulfilling.  Eye contact was endured throughout the entire exercise, and we spoke slowly, choosing every word carefully.  Speaking so slowly with silence in between each word did not create an uncomfortable atmosphere, but rather a comforting and safe atmosphere with sincerity resonating in every word.

When we were all given the opportunity to say how we were feeling to the group after the exercise, or to pass, I took my turn.  Taking my turn when speaking to a group, especially a group I had just met two hours before, is not a typical behavior for me.  This time was different though. I couldn’t wait to share how I was feeling.  I was calm and centered and just blissful more than anything.  The mood of happiness was consistent and spread throughout the room.  Nonviolent communication can be a powerful tool to everyone, and although I have much to learn, this experience has truly showed me to potential of meaningful connections and honest and open communication.


To learn more about Nonviolent Communication, click here.




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Jul 28

10 Days Away From Bet Lahem Live Festival!

Bethlehem Festival LogoWe are only ten days away from what has –in a short few years– become a great global festival. The atmosphere in Bethlehem is full of excitement and anticipation. In the midst of unprecedented challenges, a beacon of hope and a sense of joy are beginning to fill the alleyways of the old city.

10 Days to Go, click here to Give NOW

This year, our affiliate Holy Land Trust will have more diverse workshops, stronger panels, a unique presence of global artists, as well as double the local artisans and cooperatives filling the historic Star Street and sharing their creative art and products with the thousands who will attend. All are coming together to celebrate Bet Lahem Live Festival!

With all the achievements and hard work the financial goal has still not been met and we are turning to you as our friend to ask you to help us through your generous donation. With YOUR help we raised 49% of our goal so far. We are grateful for the support that every one is giving & we are half way there!

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Jul 23

Livestream: Campaign Nonviolence National Conference

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Share the excitement and wisdom in Santa Fe of the  Nonviolence National Conference from August 6th to August 9th.   Some of the world’s greatest minds, all dedicated to creating a nonviolent culture, are meeting and lending their voices to build a world free of war, poverty and environmental destruction.

The conference sold out months ago but you now have the ability to see all of the events, speakers and panels, live and free through the live broadcast.  That means anyone with a computer or a smart phone, whether in the inner city or a remote desert, can see the conference as it happens in real time!

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Jul 13

Join NI in Petition to End Employment Discrimination

qasemIranian Professor Qasem Exirifard has been refused renewal of his contract due to the pitch of his voice, which the Khajeh Nasir Tusi University of Technology has called “feminine”. Click here to join Nonviolence International in a petition to the University to end this blatant discrimination based on basic physical characteristics.


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Jul 06

Interview With a Released Freedom Flotilla Sailor

FFDR[Courtesy of Freedom Flotilla Coalition] It was at the end of March when members of Freedom Flotilla Coalition had the chance to meet Dr. Moncef Marzouki just after the World Social Forum in Tunis. The meeting only lasted for a few minutes, however Dr. Marzouki’s response to the question “whether he would like to help FF3 and maybe join our flotilla as a sailor” was immediate and clear: “I will be on board Freedom Flotilla 3″.


Three months later Dr. Moncef Marzouki did what was agreed during the FFC meeting in Tunis. He arrived in Greece and boarded on the “Marianne of Gothenborg” to carry himself, together with the rest the sailors in all 4 boats of Freedom Flotilla III mission, the message of solidarity and hope to Gaza and to all Palestinians.

Just a few hours after his return, Dr. Marzouki was asked four questions by FFC media team about his participation, what happened on board and about the Palestinian people:  Read the rest of this entry »

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Jul 02

NI Hosts Lecture by World-renowned Palestinian Journalist

DaoudToday Nonviolence International was privileged to host well known Palestinian journalist Daoud Kuttab in Washington, D.C. for an afternoon lecture open to the public. Mr. Kuttab voiced an argument for the efficacy of strategies for nonviolent action at this stage of the Isreali-Palestinian conflict, including international efforts such as boycott, divestment, and sanctions. Mr. Kuttab also shared his unique perspectives on current conflicts across the Middle East. We invite you to join the nonviolent movement in Palestine by supporting Nonviolence International initiatives, such as the Freedom Flotilla and the Nakba Musem.

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Jul 01

‘Freedom Flotilla’ Sailors Imprisoned in Israel

[UPDATED: 2015-07-01 18:16 GMT+2] Freedom Flotilla Coalition:

It has been more than 50 hours since Israeli navy attacked the “Marianne” in international waters, 100nm from Gaza, during one of its usual acts of State piracy, always behaving as the bullying state of eastern Mediterranean. 18 participants on board were kidnapped anad brought by force and against their will to the military Ashdod port. During the operation of seizure of the “Marianne”, which IDF called “uneventful”, Israeli soldiers used violence against participants on board.  Read the rest of this entry »

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Jun 24

Next Stop: Gaza














Freedom Flotilla III embarks on its attempt to break the blockade.


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